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Published:
New York, NY : HarperOne, [2022].
Format:
Book
Edition:
First edition.
Physical Desc:
296 pages ; 24 cm
Language:
English
ISBN:
9780063072251, 0063072254, 9780063072251, 0063072254

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Description
"As he shared [on his blog] raw, uncomfortable, and darkly humorous first-person stories about the lessons he'd learned from his failed marriage, a peculiar thing happened: Matthew started to gain a following. And in January 2016 a post he wrote titled 'She Divorced Me Because I left the Dishes by the Sink' went viral and was read over four million times. Written from the lens of his own surprising, life-changing experience and his years counseling couples, Matthew Fray captures what is at the root of so many failed relationships: we simply haven't been taught any of the necessary skills. And in fact, it is sometimes the assumption that we are acting on good intentions that leads to alienating our partners and fomenting mistrust. A candid take ... on relationships that shows us that good people can be terrible partners and the ways we can strive to improve, no matter what stage of life we're in"--,Provided by publisher.

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APA Citation (style guide)

Fray, M. (2022). This is how your marriage ends: a hopeful approach to saving relationships. First edition. HarperOne.

Chicago / Turabian - Author Date Citation (style guide)

Fray, Matthew. 2022. This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. HarperOne.

Chicago / Turabian - Humanities Citation (style guide)

Fray, Matthew, This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. HarperOne, 2022.

MLA Citation (style guide)

Fray, Matthew. This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships. First edition. HarperOne, 2022.

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